Disclaimer: Every person is different in what they find to be helpful, spiritual, humorous and comforting, which is why I include a section for general thoughts to clarify exactly what I liked and disliked about the book. This is simply meant to be a guide in helping you find the book that best suits your individual needs as a newly widowed person. I wish you peace on this difficult journey.
Title: Tear Soup
Author(s): Pat Schwiebert & Chuck DeKlyen
Publishing Info: Grief Watch, Portland Oregon 1999
Helpful Meter 1-5 (1 being not at all helpful, 5 being very helpful) 4
Spiritual Meter 1-5 (1 being not spiritual, 5 being very spiritual) 3
Humor Meter 1-5 (1 being not humorous at all, 5 being very humorous) 1
Comfort Meter 1-5 (1 being not comforting, 5 being very comforting) 5
Staci’s Recommendation (1 being pass on this, 5 being read this today) 4
General thoughts and feelings on the book: I received a couple copies of this book when my husband died. This along with one other book (which is due for review next) helped me the most. Tear Soup is great for someone who doesn’t have a lot of time or doesn’t like to read. It is short and in picture book format. Don’t let that fool you into thinking it’s just for kids. It’s great for kids, but also covers a lot of general grief and healing for adults too. There’s a lot of emphasis on each person’s grief being different, and what you might encounter along that journey. There’s also great resources listed in the back and bullet point advice for dealing with different situations. This would be a great book to gift to someone who’s just experienced a loss (after giving it a read yourself). It scored a 3 on the spiritual meter because there was a couple pages on dealing with your faith, which I’m finding most grief books include. It’s not preachy or pushing towards faith either way. The metaphor of making “tear soup” as the grief journey is great and easy to understand. I highly recommend this book.